Tuesday, February 25, 2014

The True Emotional Tale Of The Cohen Family And Where We Were Then And Where We Are Now And If You Would Like To Help My Family

   
 My Compelling story of how difficult life was for my Family, and how ones inner abilities comes out, despite much turmoil.  This post is a true story, and is very over whelming  on my inner abilities, the turmoil, that my family has gone thru, and what led me to this point. Once again, this is a true story, and I would love to get your feelings on this post, and if you can think in your mind, would you like to help my family.  If  You  Truly Want To Help, There Is A Personal Email Address to Write To,
at the end of this story.
   
I wanted to tell you my story, to show you what we have been thru from 5 years ago. It is a compelling story, to show how turmoil was accepted, and what we are doing about recovering from heartshaped emotions. Let me tell you how it began, and to reflect how hard it was for my family. It began when we were living in Jacksonville Florida 5 years ago in Mandarin, and paying $1050.00 per month in rent. Now I was disabled with Parkinson Disease since 2007 on a fixed income, coming into our bank account on a fixed income of $2,000 a month, with $40,000 in debt, which included bills from Medical occurence from when my wife was in the hospital with double pnumonia in both lungs, 105 temperature, and an oxygen level of only 82%.

This is how it went . We were living in a 3/2 home for 4 years and never being late, when we ended up with a double whammy to my family. It started when we heard that my father was not going to make it thru the night back in March 2011. I took my family and rushed down to south floorida, to see him before he was going to die. We missed it by 20 minutes, and I was so upset and crying. I had to deal with it, and went to the funeral, and drive back to jacksonville, where we were living. It seemed my wife  Elizabeth wasen't feeling well, and  wanted to wait until the next day to go to the doctor. Well it seemed at 2:00 AM, she was going down hill fast, and I had to rush her to the hospital with 105 degree temperature.When we got her in the emergency room, the dotor told me after some tests, that I was lucky to bring her in that morning, because if I waited 5 more hours, she would of not been alive. It seemed her oxygen level dipped to only 82% in her blood, and her vitals were going down hill. We caught it just in time. She was in the hospital with oxygen for 2 weeks. Now mind you I was never late on my rent all those times, and I called my landlord to ask for some help. He said either I come up with the rent in 24 hours or I have to leave. How heartless can somebody be. I told my neighbors, and they were real upset. Well we were evicted, as he didn't care about what we were going thru, let alone my wife was not 100% yet. What we had to do, is move all our stuff into storage, and moved to a small city called Live Oak into a 2 bedroom 1 bath mobile only paying $500 a month. Well after living there for 5 months, we were averaging a electric bill of $525 a month. Something was wrong. So I had Fpl which was the electric company we had, to do an audit on the utility. We found out, that the landlord was tapping into our electric, and when we confronted him, he said move out. This was all coming back to us on our heart ache, as we were not recovered from the previous move, as dishonest person, really effected us with no money, other then having enough for putting our stuff in storage. My son was going to a special school in Lake city, where we are living now, but not at our home, where we are. We had to be around ,where my son was going to school. We then became homeless, and was living in the car for 4 months. We didn't have enough money to move to a location that was safe. We kept on getting food from catholic charities, and washed ourselfs off in a wallmart bathroom, and went to a laundry place to clean our clothes. We were struggling to just to live. If things couldn't get any worse, our car died and the transmission went. We didn't have any money, we didn't have a vehicle to take my son to school, and I had an anxiety attack, and went to the emergency room. I was lucky, as it disapated over night. We called all around and no success. But a light was at the end of the tunnel. We had our laptops still, and while my son was at school, which where we had to walk to from where our car was, we went to a starbucks, as we had $3.00 left to have a coffee, and use our lap-tops by using the wireless connection. I made over 100 calls, and 70 emails, and we got a call at 7:00 pm at night, from a Jewish federation organization in New york. They were going to fund us to live in a hotel for 2 months, so we can recover and save some money, to find a more suitable living environment. It was nice, as they had breakfast every morning, and ice cream for my son at night, and catholic charities delivered food to us in our room. Well one day, I saw an add in the paper for a nice 2 bedroom and 1 bath mobile, right outside of town. The landlord felt bad for us, on what we have gone thru, that he helped us to move into the home for $495 which  was the rent, and he had storage on the premises. He moved all my stuff into the mobile, and it is a little cramped, but was a real nice place to live. At this point, we were not happy with our son's school, and decided to move into a public school, where a bus would pick him up right in front of our door, and dropped him off in the afternoon. We were starting to feel a little btter.Well I had to hitch into town for groceries, and at times with the wagon walked home, which was about 5 miles. Well after doing this for 5 months, our son made friends with ANOTHER boy, whos father was working on a project car, and said , he got it working, and gave us the car, and didn't want anything for it. We just needed a car to take him to the doctor, and go for groceries. I started to cry, as it was getting a little better for us. We are now at that time, in the residence we are about 1 year. We knew we still had serious financial problems to correct. So in June of 2011 we ended up getting a pro-bono attorney to help us go bankrupt chapter 7. We were discharged in October 2012. And a load was off our chest. We were beginning to make strides in our journey to get back up from all the turmoil we went thru. We had our car, we were living in a nice place, and we were beginning to feel better about life. At this time 1 year passed and it was June of 2013. We were making very good strides from our bankruptcy discharge. From scores of 495,515,510 to scores averaging 581,578, 584. We were making a good name for our selves. Just a few months ago, our car died, but not before I was able to get it to a car dealer in Jacksonville, they helped us get a newer vehicle of a chrysler pacifica Suv with only 63,000 miles a 2008 model, and payments of only $311.88. Things were doing a lot better, so after 7 months, I decided to rfinance our vehicle, it lowered our monthly payment to $284 a month, and we didn't have to make a payment for 45 days. We finally had a little nest egg of $300. Well we had to use it so we could buy our son clothes. He is Autistic/Adhd as well. It has been 7 years from when I was deemed 100% disabled from Parkinson Disease, and we get now monthly of a net of $2100 a month, and paying our bills on time, with 2 credit cards, and a rent of $510 a month. We been here going on 3 years, managing our income, and hoping for some help to buy a home of a 3/2 home with 1650 sq footage, and a 2 acre area, so we can grow our own food, and save more. My housing is at this point of only 25% of net income coming in, and we are managing well, with all accounts.

I can afford monthly amount of $475.00 per month. I don't want a mansion, just a decent place to live as I can have my family safe. We are reaching out for help as we don't have any family to help. We are also 1st time buyers. please try to help. We want a place we can call home.We are a disabled family, which consist of myself David = Parkinson Disease, Elizabeth wife= 2 herniated discs, and was on Oxygen therapy, and jacob son= autistic/adhd.       PLEASE HELP MY FAMILY

My ceiling on a property is between  55,000 - 75,000 (living in my means now on) . 3/2 or 4/2 min 1800 sq feet and 3+ acres. $450-$485 PER MONTH
A prespective seller or investor should be impressed on how I am grasping my credit for the future. I think I am in a very good position to approach   owning a home.    We don't have  any savings being on a fixed income, but our credit is much improved. I did all corrections on my own. I can't afford any credit correction service. But if we can have a chance, we are doing things right for the last several years, and have finally learned our lesson on credit. We are picking Lake city or Ocala as my main locations,or Colorado. Ceiling on a property is between  55,000 - 75,000 (living in my means now on) . 3/2 or 4/2 min 1800 sq feet and 3+ acres.

A lot of people are amazed on how I use a directive, and focus on my hobby which is writing. I am being recognized as one of the fastest writers around to take the internet by storm. The months ahead I am going to post many direct posts to show you the truth in how we all have to accept. I never will fluff a story to appease anyone. I am me, very direct and honest. I will never be afraid to post what reality is in our lives, and you will see a measure of my Intuitive approach in stories,  I will write. I joined Bubblews to share thru Social Media how I write and to reflect empathy and sincerness on writing from my heart. My pen name is "Mollie Strongbloom"

The Truth In My Heart Can Only Be Cared For, If You Can Reach Out To Help

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Thank You
David Cohen ("Mollie Strongbloom")

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1 comment:

  1. Wow. That is overwhelming. Congratulations on pulling out of it as much as you have. You are in my prayers. I am also in the process of recovering from massive debt following a massive flood that ravaged our community and caused massive damage to my house and destroyed my brother's house. If I weren't in the middle of trying to pay off loans and still repairing my house and trying to make it livable again, I might be able to help a little but I am working 2 jobs, plus doing skin care plus writing to try to pay off my own debts. Could your wife do some crafts or writing or some of the other legit online work to earn some money? Or sew, knit, crochet stuff she could sell on eBay? God bless you. I trust He has answers and will open doors for you.

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